Proverbs 23:14
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Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.
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God wants to help you save your children. The high King of heaven has addressed child training, and He plainly ordained corporal punishment to save children from trouble and premature death. The use of the rod to inflict minor bodily pain will deliver a child from the greater pain of a dysfunctional life and/or the judgment of God. You can read all the psychology textbooks you want - there is not a ray of light in them (Is 8:20). God has spoken; the issue is settled (Ps 119:128). What will you do for your children?
The mantra of this effeminate, permissive, and dysfunctional society is: "Kids, you can't beat 'em." How did they come up with this ridiculous jingle? By allowing pubescent girls to hallucinate together in a Social Studies class about their ideas to make the world a better place! The Creator God has given the final and authoritative answer on this subject, and 6,000 years of world history have confirmed it. The most orderly homes and societies are the disciplined ones, and the disciplined ones used corporal punishment to achieve it.
Every parent must choose. Will you submit to God's word as the final authority, or will you worship at the altar of modern education and psychology? Without faith in God and His word, a man is unreasonable, incapable of right thinking, and vulnerable to ridiculous tripe like Benjamin Spock's Baby and Child Care or A.S. Neill's Summerhill: A Radical Approach to Childrearing. Both of which are absurd in content and bankrupt in results. Is this assessment of modern man too harsh? Not hardly (Rom 1:21-32; I Tim 6:3-5,20-21)!
There is no question to Bible believers what spawned the hippies and rebellion of the 1960's and the resulting explosion in crime, recreational drugs, children born out of wedlock, and decline in test scores. It was the first generation raised on Spock's anti-God fantasy, which was first published in 1946 and became the nation's bestseller. What did Mr. Spock think later, after observing the results, and seeing his own son commit suicide? The doctor confessed that his book, formed from Freud's insane delusions and Darwin's debased humanity, was based on unproven theories that had failed.
Is pain constructive? Did you monitor your driving speed better after your last traffic ticket? Think how carefully you would drive, if you received a ticket for every violation! How accurately would you keep your books, if the IRS informed you of an audit? Pain is constructive! Even the fear of pain is constructive! The issue is so simple it precludes discussion. But the world rushes on, screaming against caring corporal punishment, while screaming for the murder of unborn children and the perpetual incarceration of their numerous failures. That is what a liberal education will get you (I Cor 1:19-20; 3:19-20)!
To think you are wiser than God and 6,000 years of world history and adopt a modern fantasy for child training is folly. God has spoken very clearly. You cannot improve upon the simple wisdom of Proverbs, no matter what approach you choose in your arrogance. Neither greater severity nor greater permissiveness will work. Children are inherently foolish; the rod will drive it out of them; they can be saved from self-destruction; and they can grow up to be productive adults, making parents very happy, if it is applied early and liberally (3:11-12; 13:24; 19:18; 22:6,15; 23:13-14; 29:15,17).
Withholding corporal punishment is child abuse (13:24)! Spare the rod, spoil the child! Kids, you better beat them! Children must learn to submit to the loving authority of parents in their formative years, or they will be belligerent, proud, and selfish adults. They will have trouble submitting to the other relationships of life. The self-discipline necessary for adult success depends on parental discipline as a child. It is cruel to avoid a little pain to parent and child now that will certainly cause great pain to both in the future.
What is the rod in this proverb? "A straight, slender shoot or wand, growing upon or cut from a tree, bush, etc." (OED.) It is exactly what every parent and teacher knew as the hickory switch a few generations ago (10:13). It was as indispensable as a whip for a horse and a bridle for an ass (26:3). It is not a club, because the purpose is not harm, but affectionate correction. Its use would leave thin stripes of color on the back, which are as effective to the child as a ticket or an audit to the parent (17:10; 19:29; 20:30).
What is the salvation from hell in this proverb? This cannot literally mean the lake of fire, or eternal life would depend on child discipline, not the grace of God. But hell is also used metaphorically for trouble, destruction, or death (Ps 16:10; 18:5; 86:13; 116:3; Is 5:14; 28:15; Jonah 2:2). Here is a dysfunctional and troubled life leading to a premature death, either by accident, crime, revenge, or capital punishment. A salvation indeed!
The future of your family, your church, and the nation depend on the wise application of God's inspired and infallible word. Those who rejoice and obey it will be blessed. Those who defy and reject it will bear the consequences, as any honest person can see already. The consequences of rebelling against God's word and sending spoiled children into the world are coming home to roost. Save your children today! Thank you, Lord of heaven and earth, for your inspired and infallible instruction for proper training of children!
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