2020 Servant Leader Series

 

Krish Dhanam and J Loren Norris - 2020 Servant Leader Series

 

https://www.jlorennorris.com/podcast/krish-dhanam-and-j-loren-norris-2020-servant-leader-series?ct=t(BLOG_feed_to_ell)&mc_cid=473136e0e8&mc_eid=39cb1b893f

 

INTERVIEW WITH KRISH CONTENT we discuss in the course of this conversation. -

 

·         Deception - Narcissism vs MEGALOMANIA vs INFLUENCE

 

·         Bryan FLANAGAN GOING BEYOND

 

·         MISSION (trips vs purpose)

 

·         Why we LEAD LEADERS - impacting  culture is a responsibility not just opportunity

 

·         Traveling the world - I discover people only want to be a little better

 

·         “Life is simple. We made it complicated so we have an excuse.” Krish Dhanam

 

·         “Are you willing to be a ten year over night success?” MR. Z asks Krish

 

·         Loren’s first Gauntlet experience with speaker Bryan Dodge

 

·         Home spun Ziglarismz - “You do it your way” - “I am a cultural crusader...”

 

·         Behind the scenes vs Marketing hot peanuts

 

·         “I didn’t call you just to your neighborhood” global reach

 

·         Delivery relevant to your audience is more important than your “message”

 

·         Having the right attitude for the group you asked to speak to

 

·         We are called to go - AFTER WE LOVE THEM - Judea, Samaria, ends of the earth -55 times to return to India “I left there on purpose”

 

·         Why did you take away the coleslaw? “Marry the mission and dating the method.” Dan Cathy

 

·         “It’s easiest to make a speech it’s the hardest thing to be invited back.” Krish

 

·         Are Leaders born or made?

 

 

 

LEADERS MUST SPEAK UP AGAINST INJUSTICE

 

https://www.jlorennorris.com/podcast/leaders-must-speak-up-against-injustice?ct=t(BLOG_feed_to_ell)&mc_cid=473136e0e8&mc_eid=39cb1b893f

 

    “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing.” Said many men, on many occasions.

 

 “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing.” Said many men, on many occasions.

 

TO WHOM DO YOU LEND YOUR VOICE UNTIL THEY FIND THEIRS?

 

Silence is often the greater evil. The act of knowing what to do or say and “staying out of it” is often more injurious than the act of evil itself.

 

If you know to do right or to say right and your do or say nothing, are you any different than the perpetrator of wrong doing?

 

If you see someone kidnapping a child, stealing a purse, robbing a bank, trafficking a mother and child, selling drugs, stealing from the boss, harming an innocent in any way - is their not something natural inside of you which screams out against the injustice? How then could you remain still and silent?

 

We live in a generation when the mob mentality has silenced the majority of good people. A few threatening gestures or political posturing and the majority cowers in the corner.

 

As leaders you have a responsibility to right. We must speak up. We must show up and vote. We must speak the truth even when in popular. We must speak the truth at great risk. We must tell it like it is even when it costs us friends or instagram followers.

 

Now is the time to be real with your own core values. To speak on behalf of those who cannot, those who would not, those who have not yet found their voice.

 

 

 

3 Sure Fired Ways To Kill Your Future.

 

https://www.jlorennorris.com/podcast/3-sure-fired-ways-to-kill-your-future?ct=t(BLOG_feed_to_ell)&mc_cid=473136e0e8&mc_eid=39cb1b893f

 

Next, looking at the list of uncompleted accomplishments, ask your which ones still matter? Was it an idea whose time has passed? Do I still care to see this happen? How much emotional energy will I need to invest to achieve this? Is it worth it? If you cannot see investing any more time, money or emotion in this idea - SCRATCH IT OFF THE LIST!

 

What remains will be the accomplishments set before you for 2020.

 

Now look at your great successes of the last year or the last decade. Match them up with the accomplishments in your sights 2020. Chances are, the same energy, effort and connection which brought success before will bring success again. Be clear on your emotional attachment to these accomplishments. Be clear on your reasons behind them.

 

CHANGE YOUR STORY

 

It’s time to stop repeating the current circumstances. The primary reason you are is because you are letting the circumstances tell your story. They may be you story for now, but they need not be your story for next.

 

It’s time to stop repeating in your head the list of misses, mistakes and failures. Again, these inform your reality and your emotions and they will detail any future accomplishments.

 

Finally, begin to remind yourself EVERYDAY of the successful accomplishments of the past which match the ones which lie ahead. Use the energy and relationships of your previous triumphs to create momentum and write the story of a better future.

 

Still need help? Send me a message and we will schedule a brief session to get you started!!

 

 

 

 

 

YOUR NEW YEAR.

 

1. Too much focus on current circumstances and comparison.

 

2. Too much focus on the mistakes or misses of the past. (Failure mindset)

 

3. Too little focus on the truth of your destiny and the story you tell yourself.

 

Instead let me encourage you to take some time over the next 36 hours to make a list of all the things you had considered, imagined, planned, wished or tried to accomplish in 2019.

 

Using this complete list, isolate those things which were accomplished from those which were not.

 

Looking first at the list of things which were accomplished take a moment to be filled with gratitude. Out beside each accomplishment on the list make note of all the other accomplishments which happened because of or in conjunction with this success. Now write a list of all the people who helped you to reach this accomplished success.

 

Next, looking at the list of uncompleted accomplishments, ask your which ones still matter? Was it an idea whose time has passed? Do I still care to see this happen? How much emotional energy will I need to invest to achieve this? Is it worth it? If you cannot see investing any more time, money or emotion in this idea - SCRATCH IT OFF THE LIST!

 

What remains will be the accomplishments set before you for 2020.

 

Now look at your great successes of the last year or the last decade. Match them up with the accomplishments in your sights 2020. Chances are, the same energy, effort and connection which brought success before will bring success again. Be clear on your emotional attachment to these accomplishments. Be clear on your reasons behind them.